fix: stop presence sync from resetting user status to online

[eleboucher]

Description

When using sliding sync, the background presence sync poll hardcodes set_presence: 'online' on every /sync request

Fixes #1091

Type of change

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)
• This change requires a documentation update

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[7w1]

Threw my solution into #1069, basically the same thing but with other sliding sync related changes so I don't need to deal with conflicts