fix(node:stream): emit write callback errors

[andrewtdiz]

Summary

• route Writable _write/constructor write callback errors through stream destroy after invoking the write callback
• preserve Node's callback-before-error ordering while setting destroyed/errored via the existing destroy path
• remove the now-passing known-failure entries for writable sink write errors and the same failure through pipe()

DeepWiki

• reference/deepwiki/nodejs-node-writable-write-callback-error-2026-05-28.md

Verification

• Baseline exact node-suite/stream/writable/sink-write-rejection-becomes-error: FAIL, report test-parity/reports/parity_report_20260528_080029.json
• First exact node-suite/stream/writable/sink-write-rejection-becomes-error: PASS, report test-parity/reports/parity_report_20260528_080441.json
• Related exact node-suite/stream/pipe/dest-error-propagates: PASS, report test-parity/reports/parity_report_20260528_080524.json
• Final exact node-suite/stream/writable/sink-write-rejection-becomes-error: PASS, report test-parity/reports/parity_report_20260528_080600.json
• Final exact node-suite/stream/pipe/dest-error-propagates: PASS, report test-parity/reports/parity_report_20260528_080606.json
• cargo test -p perry-runtime writable_write_callback_error_emits_error_and_destroys
• cargo check -p perry-runtime -p perry-stdlib -p perry-codegen
• cargo fmt --check
• jq empty test-parity/known_failures.json
• git diff --check

Non-goals

• no broad writable state-machine rewrite
• no stream pipeline callback work
• no promises.finished rejection cleanup
• no unrelated stream error/destroy known-failure removals